Skip to content

BookTok and romance glossary

Crush

A crush is a strong, often secret feeling of attraction toward someone, usually early, hopeful and not yet spoken aloud. Having a crush means thinking about a person more than usual and wishing they felt the same, before any relationship exists. People also call that person their crush.

Definition

What does "Crush" mean?

In everyday English a crush is an infatuation: romantic interest that is new, intense and mostly one-sided or unconfirmed. A crush can fade, stay a private feeling or turn into a relationship once both people share it. In romance stories the secret crush is a popular setup, because the tension lives in what has not been said yet.

By the Prelulu editorial team · Updated

Why it works

A short example

You reread their message three times, notice when they are online and rehearse what to say before you see them. Nothing has happened between you yet, and that anticipation is what a crush feels like.

Crush, love and situationship

A crush is a feeling one person has; love is usually deeper and built over time; a situationship is an undefined relationship two people are already in. A crush comes before any of that is decided.

Why stories love it

A secret crush gives every small moment weight: a borrowed pen, a glance, a late reply. Readers enjoy the suspense of whether the feeling will be returned.

Start now

Pick someone. They remember from message one.

Bring the trope and character type you loved. The story starts the second you open a chat.

See also

FAQ

Questions, answered

A crush is a strong romantic attraction to someone, often secret and early, before you know whether they feel the same. It can also mean the person you like.

Not usually. A crush is new and built on attraction and hope; love tends to grow from knowing someone well over time. A crush can become love, but it does not have to.

A romance where one character hides their feelings and the tension comes from small hints. On Prelulu you can play one with an original character who remembers the details.

Crush

Choose a character for conversation, roleplay or a live call. Check the current plans and available credits before calling.

Explore AI characters

Updated